Monday, May 20, 2013
No parenting blog worth its salt would let the passing of Maurice Sendak go unmentioned, and this blog is nothing if not salty. The Boy has been raised on Sendak, as was I, and he is equally beloved by both generations in our household. We are sad to see him sail off over the horizon, and we hope that when he gets where he is going, his dinner is waiting for him, and that it is still hot.

I was surprised to find that two of Sendak’s most popular works, Where the Wild Things Are and the Nutshell Library, dated from the early 1960s. Maybe it’s just because they were such a huge part of my elementary-school years that they seemed very of the 1970s to me. At John B. Cary Elementary School in the 1970s, there was always something Sendak-centric going on, from the school production of Really Rosie starring an itty-bitty Emily Skinner, to the artwork on the walls. Maurice Sendak was everywhere, even on Sesame Street, with a politically incorrect animated short about a birthday party for a boy named Bumble-Ardy that was scary and wonderful and involved a lot of wine being drunk. (Bumble made a comeback as a pig in Sendak’s final book, released last year — but today’s gentler sensitivities required that he serve brine instead of wine at his party.)

Regular readers of this column should not be surprised to hear that The Boy’s favorite Sendak title is, of course, Where the Wild Things Are. As a toddler, he would ask for it over and over, presenting the book to me or to Tad with a plaintive “Batcha How?”

“Batcha How” was his imagined narration of what the Wild Things were chanting in those glorious text-free pages of wild rumpusing, and every time we reached that part of the story, he would hop up from his seat in the lap of whoever was reading the story and stomp joyfully around the room, waving his arms in the air, chanting “BATCHA BATCHA HOW! BATCHA BATCHA HOW! BATCHA BATCHA HOW!” Because of course, if there was a wild rumpus happening somewhere, he was going to be a part of it. During quieter times, we would sometimes find him sitting in the laundry basket, with a faraway look in his eye. If we asked him what he was doing, he would smile slyly and say, in halting baby speak, “Private. Boat.”

and an ocean tumbled by with a private boat for Max

and he sailed off through night and day

and in and out of weeks

and almost over a year

to where the wild things are.

Farewell and godspeed, Mr. Sendak. And thank you.

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